We all struggle with making decisions at some stage. Why is that? Are we afraid of losing everything that we have or that we have worked for? The truth is, that decision has been put to you because now there is something else that you wish to achieve or that the Universe has in store for you.
The decision itself is only the beginning. Is it the decision itself or its possible outcomes that worries you or rather what you perceive you are putting on the line if you go for it but on the other hand think of what you will attain as a result of the decision. Which of these is more desirable?
The fear of loss is greater than the desire for gain. – Zig Ziglar.
When you make a decision you are jumping into a strong current that will take you to places you may never have dreamed of when you made the decision. We try so hard to hold onto things, to keep things the same, normal, or routine. The trouble then is that we can’t cope when something unforeseen comes up and so we get this anxiety or analysis paralysis.
We must release our desire to lock things down, to control things and go with the ebbs and flows of life. If we fail to make a decision or avoid anything which upsets our status quo we are hindering our growth and progress and if we are not growing we are dying (inside) a little everyday until life, hopes and dreams have been sucked out of us and we are left cynical and jaded.
When you do make a decision you will find freedom in the action, you are released of the anguish and the struggle of it, and there is no going back. The only thing then is to focus on the best way of moving forward. There will be obstacles along the way and you may have to make detours but always ensure you are moving forward toward the same destination.
So if you are struggling to make a decision, don’t think of it as the end, think of it in terms of the possibilities it holds and who knows where it may lead.
When you want something with all your heart you are closest to the soul of the World. – Paulo Coehlo, The Alchemist.
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